firedodger, on 06 July 2017 - 10:05 PM, said:
Speaking of which, your first paragraph says morality is subjective and as such decisions based on an individuals morality should not be questioned, yet you persistently question the morality of people who choose to eat meat.
I think your original point was if the two foods taste the same and cost similar why would anyone choose meat, to which my point still stands, they choose it because they can, it's up to them. Their actions are legal and within their own moral code so it's not up to you or me to judge them even if you disagree with their morality.
Regarding the analogy, it's a bit deep and poncy to base that on ethics, I'd kick her out because I've gone off her, and I'd probably get a divorce and custody because what she did goes against the marriage vows (pretty sure there was nothing about ethics in there, although I'm aware you can write your own vows if you want to put them in) and I'd make him walk with a limp for along time because it would put a smile on my face.
As for the discussion being about ethics, it's a message board, threads can be diversified surely? It isn't your decision to keep it purely on ethics is it?
Morals are different for everyone, and if a situation or act affects you but doesn't physically involve you it's perfectly acceptable to have a different moral standpoint to the people directly involved.
For instance you have your own morals regarding meat eating which I neither respect not disrespect because they make no difference to me, they're yours and nowt to do with me, and vice versa.
My first paragraph was me using your own arguments against you, I don't actually believe that an individual's morality should not be questioned, I was using your argument to show how it doesn't make sense to me personally. May not have come across well in text format but I was as clear as I could be.
Yes, your whole argument has been based on people doing things because they can as long as they are legal. I don't disagree that this is the world we live in, people are indeed allowed to do this as I've previously said, I'm discussing morals, there's absolutely no discussion to be had on the sheer legality of an action because I've never once questioned that. My point is something can be legal yet immoral and i can certainly judge them if I wish. We can judge whoever we want for whatever reason we choose.
You can't just dismiss a point by calling it poncey. It wouldn't even have to be marriage, it could be a long term girlfriend, just to take marriage out of the question. You surely can't disagree that what she did was ethically wrong in your mind - she betrayed your trust and as such, you take the decision to end your relationship with her because she has broken your personal code of ethics. That's not 'poncey', that's literally what I'm speaking about. What she did was legal yet unethical which is my entire point and to keep a consistent moral baseline you simply can't disagree with what I've said there. You can't pretend that you splitting up with your hypothetically cheating partner isn't a decision based on ethics.
Answered your fourth paragraph in this post previously.
'Morals differ from person to person' is true yet a bit of a wishy-washy response if you're wanting to debate something. Your entire argument is that people can do what they like if it's legal and should retain the right to not be judged by others for doing so, correct? Hence why I've used the example of a cheating partner to point out what I believe is hypocrisy. You think ethics don't need to be brought into the equation as long as it meets the requirement of 'legal', im saying that may be how you choose to live your life but I believe even on a daily basis you'd find yourself contradicting this stance frequently - for example somebody calls somebody in your family a c**t in a non-joking manner for no reason, you'd probably think 'wow why did they do that? That's not very nice, they can't be a very pleasant person' - that is you judging somebody again using your own code of ethics which contradicts what you previously said because if you kept that logic consistent you would have to simply shrug your shoulders and say 'ah well, he's entitled to his opinion, I shouldn't judge' unless you believe that you wouldn't react in any way to this hypothetical scenario in which case I think you'd be lying to yourself.
I'm asking you to hold a consistent set of views - if you say that eating meat is fine because it's legal and I shouldn't question an individual's decision to eat meat (or more specifically choose a plant-based exact copy of a meat burger) then to retain logical consistency based on your previous statement you would have to hold that exact view on a cheating partner - 'it's fine because it's legal and I shouldn't question her decision to cheat' and if you didn't and instead chose to break up with her, you are agreeing (whether you admit it or not) that her behaviour was unethical and you judged her accordingly which again contradicts yourself.
We are free to judge how we please regardless of how much the person being judged cares or not. We are free to judge decisions based on ethics, if you don't do something in line with my ethics I can raise that point - you could judge me if I consumed lettuce and almond milk for their high water usage (I don't), I can judge you for eating meat for its objective cruelty + damage to the planet and its environment. Neither of us have to care, but eating meat is definitely less ethical than not eating meat regardless of your feelings towards it unless you base your entire argument off legality which I deem a very closed-minded and illogical way to view a topic.