What The B2 Has Done For Me Re-kindled a love affair
#1
Posted 11 August 2010 - 03:08 PM
Some may know me, some wont so a brief story if your interested, if not, no need to read on!!
From 1976/77 until a couple of seasons after the Darren Brown regime, I rarely missed a home game and from around 1986 I used to travel to the vast majority of away games, the points reduction season one was my best attended, missing no home games and just one away (and that includes midweek games and treks to Carlisle wondering where the juice was coming from).
After the 'Brown' regime, a lot of my love for the club started to subside, I felt let down, betrayed, dissolutioned and could see little light at the end of the tunnel (thats the second time Ive used that phrase this week, must be more imaginative). I started at first to almost stop completely from going to away games and missing the odd home game (feeling guilty when I did miss), gradually I missed more and more until it got to the point that in the last couple of seasons I only attended three or four home games and maybe a couple of away games (if I needed the ground).
All in all, I had become an almost non goer in the space of a few seasons, from previously being a long standing season ticket holder, purchaser of kit/shirt sponsor etc etc. My love affair had ceased after 30 odd years.
I still visited the website, read reports and needed to know the town score asap when I wasnt there, I still loved the club, but wasnt in love with it and felt no urge to up the tempo and start returning.
I went to a couple of games last season and then when the Bournemouth game came up, I bought a ticket (felt a bit guilty actually) but then thought as a veteran of hundreds and hundreds of Saltergate games I had earned my place there. Enjoyed the day for all the nostalgic reasons and even shed a shy tear at the end, I departed having said my farewell to a long old friend who I hadnt seen that often lately but had spent the bulk of my life with.
I said I would go to the first game at the B2net and I duly trotted off to the Derby game with the sole intention of it being my first visit and maybe last for at least several months. Cutting it short, I was gobsmacked and decided I would go to the Barnet game, I could feel an old flame being re-lit within.
I wasnt overly impressed with the Barnet game from a footballing point of view, but the lads did enough and opening day fixtures can often be misleading and 'cup tie ish' in terms of a non existent form book. I also took my son (who I had dragged twice to Saltergate, much to his dislike), he loved it.
Last night I went to the Boro game and went East Stand (previous two being West), I cant keep away, I feel like Im back, I dont think the football is anything to do with it, its more like I can see some light at the end of the tunnel (3 times now!!!).
The Stadium I find amazing, better than I could have imagined, I find Im transfixed with it at times when viewing it from the outside when approaching and when looking from the pub etc. Would I have been tempted back to Saltergate, I honestly dont think I would have been on a regular basis, will it coax me to away games, not likely on a regular basis but who knows, will I miss any games at the B2, for sure, Im away for the Hereford game and wont be here and there will be times when other things come before football, however.... I cant see me missing many, for the Barnet and Boro games, I felt as passionate about it all as I did more than a decade ago and I can only put it down to the Ground, the positive vibes about the place and not feeling like everything is a dead end, Saltergate was a lovely place in terms of memories and special games/evenings giantkills etc etc etc, but I honestly feel Saltergate, dank, dark, dying.....along with Browns antics killed my will for the club.
The B2 has poured a huge can of whitewash over all that, I feel refreshed, heart warmed, full of enthusiasm and ready for action.... Im Back and looking forward to the ride.
#2
Posted 11 August 2010 - 03:24 PM
jamie_bolsover, on Aug 11 2010, 04:11 PM, said:
Some may know me, some wont so a brief story if your interested, if not, no need to read on!!
From 1976/77 until a couple of seasons after the Darren Brown regime, I rarely missed a home game and from around 1986 I used to travel to the vast majority of away games, the points reduction season one was my best attended, missing no home games and just one away (and that includes midweek games and treks to Carlisle wondering where the juice was coming from).
After the 'Brown' regime, a lot of my love for the club started to subside, I felt let down, betrayed, dissolutioned and could see little light at the end of the tunnel (thats the second time Ive used that phrase this week, must be more imaginative). I started at first to almost stop completely from going to away games and missing the odd home game (feeling guilty when I did miss), gradually I missed more and more until it got to the point that in the last couple of seasons I only attended three or four home games and maybe a couple of away games (if I needed the ground).
All in all, I had become an almost non goer in the space of a few seasons, from previously being a long standing season ticket holder, purchaser of kit/shirt sponsor etc etc. My love affair had ceased after 30 odd years.
I still visited the website, read reports and needed to know the town score asap when I wasnt there, I still loved the club, but wasnt in love with it and felt no urge to up the tempo and start returning.
I went to a couple of games last season and then when the Bournemouth game came up, I bought a ticket (felt a bit guilty actually) but then thought as a veteran of hundreds and hundreds of Saltergate games I had earned my place there. Enjoyed the day for all the nostalgic reasons and even shed a shy tear at the end, I departed having said my farewell to a long old friend who I hadnt seen that often lately but had spent the bulk of my life with.
I said I would go to the first game at the B2net and I duly trotted off to the Derby game with the sole intention of it being my first visit and maybe last for at least several months. Cutting it short, I was gobsmacked and decided I would go to the Barnet game, I could feel an old flame being re-lit within.
I wasnt overly impressed with the Barnet game from a footballing point of view, but the lads did enough and opening day fixtures can often be misleading and 'cup tie ish' in terms of a non existent form book. I also took my son (who I had dragged twice to Saltergate, much to his dislike), he loved it.
Last night I went to the Boro game and went East Stand (previous two being West), I cant keep away, I feel like Im back, I dont think the football is anything to do with it, its more like I can see some light at the end of the tunnel (3 times now!!!).
The Stadium I find amazing, better than I could have imagined, I find Im transfixed with it at times when viewing it from the outside when approaching and when looking from the pub etc. Would I have been tempted back to Saltergate, I honestly dont think I would have been on a regular basis, will it coax me to away games, not likely on a regular basis but who knows, will I miss any games at the B2, for sure, Im away for the Hereford game and wont be here and there will be times when other things come before football, however.... I cant see me missing many, for the Barnet and Boro games, I felt as passionate about it all as I did more than a decade ago and I can only put it down to the Ground, the positive vibes about the place and not feeling like everything is a dead end, Saltergate was a lovely place in terms of memories and special games/evenings giantkills etc etc etc, but I honestly feel Saltergate, dank, dark, dying.....along with Browns antics killed my will for the club.
The B2 has poured a huge can of whitewash over all that, I feel refreshed, heart warmed, full of enthusiasm and ready for action.... Im Back and looking forward to the ride.
You big old softie - nice to see you enjoyed it, seek me out and I'll get warfey to buy you a pint

#3
Posted 11 August 2010 - 03:28 PM
Dave In Footie Heaven, on Aug 11 2010, 04:27 PM, said:

Warfey wouldnt buy me a pint, he still owes me a can from the train trip home from Bradford many moons ago!!
#4
Posted 11 August 2010 - 03:36 PM
If i'm honest, i had debates with myself whether to continue with the season ticket for the past couple of years. And had people who i used to go with, who no longer do, tell me that it wasn't worth it and they don't really miss it.
I'm soo glad i stuck with it and now can find myself thinkin look what they're missing. My goal this season is to get jus 1 of those people back into it again - i don't think it will be that difficult.
#5
Posted 11 August 2010 - 03:39 PM
This post has been edited by Zytok: 11 August 2010 - 03:40 PM
#6
Posted 11 August 2010 - 03:40 PM
jamie_bolsover, on Aug 11 2010, 04:11 PM, said:
Some may know me, some wont so a brief story if your interested, if not, no need to read on!!
From 1976/77 until a couple of seasons after the Darren Brown regime, I rarely missed a home game and from around 1986 I used to travel to the vast majority of away games, the points reduction season one was my best attended, missing no home games and just one away (and that includes midweek games and treks to Carlisle wondering where the juice was coming from).
After the 'Brown' regime, a lot of my love for the club started to subside, I felt let down, betrayed, dissolutioned and could see little light at the end of the tunnel (thats the second time Ive used that phrase this week, must be more imaginative). I started at first to almost stop completely from going to away games and missing the odd home game (feeling guilty when I did miss), gradually I missed more and more until it got to the point that in the last couple of seasons I only attended three or four home games and maybe a couple of away games (if I needed the ground).
All in all, I had become an almost non goer in the space of a few seasons, from previously being a long standing season ticket holder, purchaser of kit/shirt sponsor etc etc. My love affair had ceased after 30 odd years.
I still visited the website, read reports and needed to know the town score asap when I wasnt there, I still loved the club, but wasnt in love with it and felt no urge to up the tempo and start returning.
I went to a couple of games last season and then when the Bournemouth game came up, I bought a ticket (felt a bit guilty actually) but then thought as a veteran of hundreds and hundreds of Saltergate games I had earned my place there. Enjoyed the day for all the nostalgic reasons and even shed a shy tear at the end, I departed having said my farewell to a long old friend who I hadnt seen that often lately but had spent the bulk of my life with.
I said I would go to the first game at the B2net and I duly trotted off to the Derby game with the sole intention of it being my first visit and maybe last for at least several months. Cutting it short, I was gobsmacked and decided I would go to the Barnet game, I could feel an old flame being re-lit within.
I wasnt overly impressed with the Barnet game from a footballing point of view, but the lads did enough and opening day fixtures can often be misleading and 'cup tie ish' in terms of a non existent form book. I also took my son (who I had dragged twice to Saltergate, much to his dislike), he loved it.
Last night I went to the Boro game and went East Stand (previous two being West), I cant keep away, I feel like Im back, I dont think the football is anything to do with it, its more like I can see some light at the end of the tunnel (3 times now!!!).
The Stadium I find amazing, better than I could have imagined, I find Im transfixed with it at times when viewing it from the outside when approaching and when looking from the pub etc. Would I have been tempted back to Saltergate, I honestly dont think I would have been on a regular basis, will it coax me to away games, not likely on a regular basis but who knows, will I miss any games at the B2, for sure, Im away for the Hereford game and wont be here and there will be times when other things come before football, however.... I cant see me missing many, for the Barnet and Boro games, I felt as passionate about it all as I did more than a decade ago and I can only put it down to the Ground, the positive vibes about the place and not feeling like everything is a dead end, Saltergate was a lovely place in terms of memories and special games/evenings giantkills etc etc etc, but I honestly feel Saltergate, dank, dark, dying.....along with Browns antics killed my will for the club.
The B2 has poured a huge can of whitewash over all that, I feel refreshed, heart warmed, full of enthusiasm and ready for action.... Im Back and looking forward to the ride.
Great Post. I'm Sure Many of us "old Timers" have been there, and will bring back many memories.
#7
Posted 11 August 2010 - 03:42 PM
#8
Posted 11 August 2010 - 03:44 PM
S18Spireite, on Aug 11 2010, 04:45 PM, said:
It'll be something better to put on there than the 'Mini-Huddersfield' comment

#9
Posted 11 August 2010 - 03:47 PM
twistedspire, on Aug 11 2010, 04:39 PM, said:
If i'm honest, i had debates with myself whether to continue with the season ticket for the past couple of years. And had people who i used to go with, who no longer do, tell me that it wasn't worth it and they don't really miss it.
I'm soo glad i stuck with it and now can find myself thinkin look what they're missing. My goal this season is to get jus 1 of those people back into it again - i don't think it will be that difficult.
Thanks
Im sure many others will return, the whole place breaths of 'going somewhere'. For the first time in a long, long time I even feel compelled to congratulate the board, something that in my 'hey day' as a town fan would have been unthinkable. They really have delivered on the stadium front.
#10
Posted 11 August 2010 - 05:11 PM
#11
Posted 11 August 2010 - 05:33 PM
Dave In Footie Heaven, on Aug 11 2010, 04:27 PM, said:

SEEK U OUT AND I BUY THERE BEER HOWS THAT WORK DAV


jamie_bolsover, on Aug 11 2010, 04:31 PM, said:
remind who u are who are ya who are ya

warfey is a spireite, on Aug 11 2010, 06:35 PM, said:


remind who u are who are ya who are ya

its not u with dave the ex dustman isit from boser
#12
Posted 11 August 2010 - 05:41 PM
Glad to hear your back!!
#13
Posted 11 August 2010 - 05:50 PM
I feel the same. I only started picking and choosing games when rico took over....felt deflated at the blatent decline under" mr nice guy" and felt very strong that the club was dying a slow painful indignant death.
Feels different now. Even feel a pre-match buzz.
Great post mate....welcome back
#14
Posted 11 August 2010 - 05:58 PM

#15
Posted 11 August 2010 - 06:30 PM
warfey is a spireite, on Aug 11 2010, 06:36 PM, said:


remind who u are who are ya who are ya

its not u with dave the ex dustman isit from boser
I used to go to a fair few games with Dave yes, not always but some.
#16
Posted 11 August 2010 - 06:34 PM
Skywalker, on Aug 11 2010, 06:44 PM, said:
Glad to hear your back!!
Its feels good to be back and on the occasions Ive 'tested' coming back over the past few years it never did, now there seems to be refreshed hope and optimism.
#17
Posted 11 August 2010 - 06:39 PM
jamie_bolsover, on Aug 11 2010, 07:33 PM, said:
jamie--well said. I don't know you and I'm a newcomer to this board. Youre views are shared, I think, by very many other supporters. Now I'm going to get back to making my dinner. Oh s--t, its burning!
#18
Posted 11 August 2010 - 06:39 PM

#19
Posted 11 August 2010 - 07:00 PM
If Carlsberg Made Chairmen, on Aug 11 2010, 07:42 PM, said:
What bait are you using on the hook today carlsberg.
#20
Posted 11 August 2010 - 07:00 PM
jamie_bolsover, on Aug 11 2010, 04:11 PM, said:
Some may know me, some wont so a brief story if your interested, if not, no need to read on!!
From 1976/77 until a couple of seasons after the Darren Brown regime, I rarely missed a home game and from around 1986 I used to travel to the vast majority of away games, the points reduction season one was my best attended, missing no home games and just one away (and that includes midweek games and treks to Carlisle wondering where the juice was coming from).
After the 'Brown' regime, a lot of my love for the club started to subside, I felt let down, betrayed, dissolutioned and could see little light at the end of the tunnel (thats the second time Ive used that phrase this week, must be more imaginative). I started at first to almost stop completely from going to away games and missing the odd home game (feeling guilty when I did miss), gradually I missed more and more until it got to the point that in the last couple of seasons I only attended three or four home games and maybe a couple of away games (if I needed the ground).
All in all, I had become an almost non goer in the space of a few seasons, from previously being a long standing season ticket holder, purchaser of kit/shirt sponsor etc etc. My love affair had ceased after 30 odd years.
I still visited the website, read reports and needed to know the town score asap when I wasnt there, I still loved the club, but wasnt in love with it and felt no urge to up the tempo and start returning.
I went to a couple of games last season and then when the Bournemouth game came up, I bought a ticket (felt a bit guilty actually) but then thought as a veteran of hundreds and hundreds of Saltergate games I had earned my place there. Enjoyed the day for all the nostalgic reasons and even shed a shy tear at the end, I departed having said my farewell to a long old friend who I hadnt seen that often lately but had spent the bulk of my life with.
I said I would go to the first game at the B2net and I duly trotted off to the Derby game with the sole intention of it being my first visit and maybe last for at least several months. Cutting it short, I was gobsmacked and decided I would go to the Barnet game, I could feel an old flame being re-lit within.
I wasnt overly impressed with the Barnet game from a footballing point of view, but the lads did enough and opening day fixtures can often be misleading and 'cup tie ish' in terms of a non existent form book. I also took my son (who I had dragged twice to Saltergate, much to his dislike), he loved it.
Last night I went to the Boro game and went East Stand (previous two being West), I cant keep away, I feel like Im back, I dont think the football is anything to do with it, its more like I can see some light at the end of the tunnel (3 times now!!!).
The Stadium I find amazing, better than I could have imagined, I find Im transfixed with it at times when viewing it from the outside when approaching and when looking from the pub etc. Would I have been tempted back to Saltergate, I honestly dont think I would have been on a regular basis, will it coax me to away games, not likely on a regular basis but who knows, will I miss any games at the B2, for sure, Im away for the Hereford game and wont be here and there will be times when other things come before football, however.... I cant see me missing many, for the Barnet and Boro games, I felt as passionate about it all as I did more than a decade ago and I can only put it down to the Ground, the positive vibes about the place and not feeling like everything is a dead end, Saltergate was a lovely place in terms of memories and special games/evenings giantkills etc etc etc, but I honestly feel Saltergate, dank, dark, dying.....along with Browns antics killed my will for the club.
The B2 has poured a huge can of whitewash over all that, I feel refreshed, heart warmed, full of enthusiasm and ready for action.... Im Back and looking forward to the ride.
Fantastic post and is pretty similar to what happened with me..........I cannot wait for the Hereford game.