warfey is a spireite, on 20 January 2015 - 10:41 AM, said:
No one is saying that devotion to go to matches is bad & we all know your disability! However, putting things like this doesn't make you a fan of the year - I have known people in far worse positions as yours & don't preach about it. It doesn't do you any favours trying to get sympathy as you have stated above...we all appreciate what you go through...but that is your choice & if it is painful, then you are fool to make it worse.....no one gets points for how many matches they get to! No one is going to think any worse of you if you chill out at home one weekend & listen to Pete Farris on the radio...because that is gold in itself!
I would love to go to every single match, but I prioritise more important things in my life..such as being with my daughters or my holidays.
I have been a supporter for 30 years now & hardly missed a match for 10 years..however the birth of my children & personal problems take more importance - now my girls are at uni I have the freedom to go to any match, which i am fortunate to do so.